tomorrow is hari raya haji, yeay.. another holiday for sure for all Malaysians, i think the Arabs country celebrated hari raya haji today, hhhmmm, weird kan, same celebration but different days of celebrating it..
and then few days after that is Christmas, yeay another holiday, Malaysians are spoiled with holidays, i mean we have too many holidays, not that i'm complaining, sure could use much more, hehehe..
abah asked me few days ago when are we getting married, me and andy lah kan, who else? what's the budget like, when are we going to start our preparation, etc and the only answer andy gave was that it's all up to me, as if i'm the only one getting married and he's not, men always lepas tangan kan.. dah lah the engagement that day i tried to settle as much as i could on my own, with the help of my family, wedding also i have to do, hish, stress stress.. just the thought of preparing for it already gives me this much stress, when the real time comes to prepare for it, for sure i would lose my mind..
if it's up to me, i don't want a huge wedding, i mean it's such a waste of money, daripada abah spends it on the wedding might as well give me the money for me to buy a house ke, kereta ke, now that would be an idea right, hehehe.. wedding is just for one day, few days for others but marriage is a lifetime, some people would take loans and borrow money just to ensure their wedding day is grand and ended up still paying for it even after few years of marriage, no naming names is particular but i know some people who have done so.. probably a small akad nikah at home with close families and friends, similar to that of the engagement ceremony, habis cerita.. but then there'll be gossips flying all around, no money to do the ceremony lah, save budget lah, i don't know what lah, we're all so consumed with what others have to say that we forget the wedding should be about us, and those who came should be thankful that they're even invited and thought of, leceh betul lah..
on a different note, i wish the flooding would ceased as soon as possible, for those to celebrate aid adha and also bcos school is opening soon..
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hey there..the most important thing is whether u r ready to spend time with him for the rest of you life =)
i think i am, well come to think of it, can anyone be really sure what's going to happen in the future??
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